Even happiness is a choice...its all in your mind!

real feelings never just disappears, you're just going to have to live with it, learn from it and eventually move on...

before anyone else you deserve to be happy...

there is never a great success without some degree of failure...

most times, we don't know who we are and until we do...we can't harness our full potentials...

ever looked back at something so amazing you did and was surprised it was actually from you?
i guess there is more to you to what you can see...#beproudofyou#

they usually say they understand but i know deep down that they have no idea...

sometimes i wish life was a lot more easier

there are things we can't avoid no matter how much we try and things we just can't do no matter how much we plan...things sometimes just happens and that's life...

we may not always have tomorrow to say what's in our thoughts & express what's in our hearts..why not do it today...

it's a terrible feeling to finally see what you've been so searching for, only to let it slip away...

there is always something to be grateful for

the worst thing is not divorce or breaking up...it's staying in an unhappy marriage or relationship

one of the worst things to do is to break yourself so you could mend others...

she said she's got my back while am still aching from the stab i got the last time i believed that...

nothing as painful as being stuck at a point or place where you don't just belong

create the memories you want to remember and be remembered for #makeanimpact#

what determines your life is not the harsh or favourable circumstances but your attitude towards them#alwaysstaypositive#

yes! time heals ALMOST everything but also remember some wounds are deeper than others#giveittime#

don't look back, it's never the destination but just a limitation#forwardever#

giving so much doesn't guarantee you getting as much#givewithnoexpectations#

scary as it is life is so short: exploit it and make a good use out of it...

if you don't put yourself first and stand for what you want or don't want...they'll either use you or just keep stepping on you...#takeastand#

they mostly say they know exactly how you feel...but that's a lie, they have no idea at all...

i don't think the scary thing in a break up is the pain but the fear of getting someone who would love us as much or someone we'd love that much....

sometimes what keeps us going is the assurance that someone has our backs...

                                                      Impossibility is a choice...
                                                    possibility is a state of mind...
                                 you can do anything you set your mind to do...#tispossible#

In you lies great power and within you lies an even greater power to accomplish whatever you so desire...#youcan#

We all need someone, who will stand by us when every other person leaves...

In the midst of your pain and struggles, look closely and you'll see dozens of reasons to be grateful...

A perfect life is when you're happy and your the reason behind some other people's happiness...

success is measured by the amount of happiness you derive and also the amount you can extend to others...

Miracles happen everyday...
we're either too blind to see them
or too proud to admit them....
already you are a miracle...

Realize this!
No matter how great and painful your problems are...there is/was somebody somewhere who has faced the exact same thing and overcame...and some others who just gave up...be among the great stories of people who didn't give up...

anybody and everybody can fall but only a few, a very few persons can get up and keep trying...try your best to be amongst that very few!

we all know our problems and the demons we face... the issue is how to solve or drive them away...

one day you'd look back and realize the pain only lasted for awhile....

yesterday is the past- forget it
today is the present- enjoy it
tomorrow is the future- nurture it

there is just one today and lots of tomorrows to face the consequences of the choices we made today...

Sometimes the wrong way or road is just a shortcut to your destination... 

when you don't have an idea where to go...any road is a start...

when taking today's decisions remember tomorrow's repercussions....

don't loose tomorrow's chances in trying to satisfy today's desires...

make an impact in someone's life,
stretch out a helping hand...
it's one of the greatest achievements you could ever have...

one of the best feelings is looking at someone smile or laughing and you know you are the reason behind it...

the worst things that could happen to you...
is meaning nothing to anybody..
and being totally useless...

so many things will pass you by, when you're so scared of getting "NO" for an answer...

we all have stories to tell....

one of the most difficult decisions you're going to have to make is:
whether to keep trying or to just give up...

to love feels incredible...
to be loved feels so amazing..
to love and to be loved back is mind blowing ...

if you must push new frontiers, you must be able to wade into uncertain territories...

love is tested at that point when you've seen every reason to leave but you still find one reason to stay....

giving up was never and should never be an option...

when you rely on people...they'll leave you when you need them most..

never expect so much, you'll be left disappointed...
BUT you'd be surprised at how much you'd receive when you expect little or nothing...

most failures were only a few steps away from success....

being awake is a testimony, some weren't able to experience...

when some-thing so good happens to you and you feel it was a mistake or you just don't deserve it...HEY!
you deserve all the best there is...

opportunity is nothing except its utilized....

when opportunity meets preparedness and desire...success is inevitable... 

wish there was a control for when to love and when to stop loving...

some people will leave your life and you feel nothing.. and some others will leave and you have to endure the pain for a very long period of time..

in love the worst things that could happen to you are:
- falling in love with the wrong person
-  and falling in love in the wrong time.

if you can push to the end...you'll realize it was worth the try

if you want to leave a memory, try leaving good ones...

no matter what you face, life still goes go on...why not move along with it?

express perfection in your imperfect self...

awake and very much grateful...

its best to let go of people who are already gone...#freshstart

there are people who you just can't stop loving irrespective of how hard you try or how bad they hurt you....

sometimes i think the heart has a brain of it's own

sometimes love is not just enough....

the typical life teaches hard lessons....

when you say "i love you" make sure you mean it...

don't ever fail to express how lucky you are to have them...

a strong relationship is not determined by the best moments...but by the hard times

you set the standards...there is no limit to what you can do or achieve...

be with someone who is scared of loosing you...

waking up this morning was a gift...

no matter how long the hurt, troubles and struggles lasts...it's only for a period of time...

even the best marriages have their issues...the difference is how they handled it...

was never told life was going to be easy neither was i told it was this hard...sometimes you got to live life as it unfolds and other times you got to step out of your comfort-zone to add value to the life you want...

Was never told life was going to be easy neither was i told it was this hard...

everybody deserves a chance to be in love at one point in their lives or remain in love for the rest of their life...it's one of the greatest feelings one could ever experience....

Problems are always gonna come...they are inevitably!
What matters is how you handle them...

Marriage wasn't meant for a bunch of special people...but with one special person for LIFE!

if he realized your worth when you left...there is a great chance he'd still forget it when you go back...

when you're hurt...its okay to cry
when you're trying...its normal to fail..

                         BUT

make sure you get over it and move on
get past it and keep trying...

Nothing or no one is far too good for you...you deserve the very best...

Don't loose what's meant to be yours...just because you feel you don't deserve it...you deserve all the best there is...

As hard as life may seem...
there is always a way...
we are either too blind to see it...
or too scared to take a step...

wake-up every morning being grateful and you would live everyday feeling great...

love can never be over-emphasized, it can only be abused by those who do not deserve or value it...

     Never let go of what you truly love easily...
     Never hold on unto what you know you can't have...

     Never be too quick to fall in love...
     Never hesitate to express your love...

     Never think you gave too much when you're in love...
     Never expect to get an equal proportion of what you offered...

                                        BUT
                           NEVER say NEVER

      Cuz miracles happen every day and dreams still come through..


 

Distance plays two roles in relationships...realizing the fact you can't live without your lover or it unveils to you that you could do perfectly okay without them... 

When hard-work stumbles on opportunity and then fortunately accompanied by favour...success is highly inevitably....  

Dreams come through everyday...yours could too!..either by working towards it and nurturing it or by simply having faith...

A Poem by Azoribe Soc Da Nations

Persuaded
By your cries,
I Concluded
Twas wrong to cut ties.
With My image.

In the former age
You were fallen
But now proven
Through Jesus
And the scriptures
You are mine!
O man, I am thine!
Same standing!
Same understanding!!
See!!!
But what is it
You don't believe?
Who captained it
That you won't receive
Jesus the Messiah
The expression of my desire?
Who died to bring you into my family
So I can live amicably
With me in you
And you in me?
This covenant is new,
Can't you See?

"Money isn't everything", very true!...but it makes every other thing easier!

Good things happen to those who wait but never expect to get the same results with those who go after the good things they want....

A very slight change in a person's fixed behaviour can result into an enormous change in results, positively or negatively....

Never ever do things that will hurt you, remember in this world you are no1...every other person or thing falls below...

Money can't guarantee more money but the management and effective utilization of money generates more money....

Never loose your happiness in the long run in an attempt to make someone's else happy...you're the most important person to yourself...

miracles happen every day...position yourself to tap from it...

There are only two ways in a relationship..its either you get married or you breakup..

Do all you can to stay happy but never hurt others in your pursuit of happiness....

At that point when it appears like nothing you do seems to be working...take a purse but not quit, to re-strategise, then get re-invigorated and then you push harder!

Life becomes extremely dangerous when there is no set of goals, no drive and no motivation..

It is okay to be patient for good things to happen, but it is wiser to go after the things we want...

A slight deviation away from a person's goal and desire can result to an opposite outcome or could take a relatively longer time in achieving them...stay focused!

The more focused and engrossed we are towards our dreams, goals and visions...the lesser the amount of time it would take in achieving them..

When you get to that point where you see no reasons to keep trying..and you want to give up...
then try harder for people who still believe in you...
pull through for those who want to see you remain down there..

If only we knew how long we'd live, only then can we apply wisdom to every second and minute...so have fun when you can...add a smile on someone's face without them asking...give without expecting...love when you find and live without explaining...

When it's comes to the point of going after what you want, love or desire in life,  no shouldn't be an answer..turning back shouldn't be an option..an opposite direction isn't your destination..

Before you choose to compromise or choose to remain in the trench of pain you are presently covered in just don't forget that in this world, you are the most important thing to your self. So go out there and do exactly what makes you happy.

We all deserve a chance to be happy...but its a personal choice to take a step towards the world of happiness or to remain in the pit of pain...

"Life" they say is tough but it's our choice to make it easier or harder than it seems...have fun when you can. its true what they say "life is too short"

                                                          we are what we say we are

The best and the most important way to change the condition of things is just to take that first bold step and you'd be surprised with the enormous differences in the result.

Its a new month. A new week. A new day. A fresh, brand new opportunity to make things right. To be the YOU you've always wanted to be. Your yesterday may have been messed up. Your past may be full of broken bottles and tears and pain and heartache. But, for how long are you gonna be tormented by those ghosts? Those tears have been an identity for too long. And, Jesus says 'Remember not the former things...for I come to make all things anew'. Seize this day. Rise up to your storms. Start right. Pray for strength and grace. And, look up steadily in spite of the rumblings below and about. Have your sight fixated on the mark. And, surely you shall have good success and your way shall be made prosperous. Happy new month!

 You are the ruler of your destiny

You’re the only force that has the ultimate power and ability to limit what it is you’re capable of, in your palms are the keys to unlock the gateway to whatsoever you desire.
If your unhappy, change your status!
If you are fat, then you work out!
If you feel trapped, unappreciated, ignored, or cheated on or heartbroken..let it go, get a hubby.
There is absolutely nothing that's worth loosing your happiness for.
You'll be stuck with that pain or misery if you don't do something about it..
It's your key and it's your life that's the key hole, only you has the distinctive ability to use it.
 All you need do is  to take a step towards the change you desire.

A poem by  Azoribe Soc Da Nations

We appear
Hands pointing up,
He is there
Asking what's up?

We complain
He explains
Again we complain
Yet He explains.
He loves,
Proved by problems He solves
On Jesus were His demand curves
He shoulders the one He loves!
Our worship
Haphazard
Fellowship we
Each with a placard.
Us: "Give us laws"
"We can keep"
God: "Consider my blood"
"It wasn't cheap"
Yet He is faithful
Even to the ungrateful,
The spiteful,
That grumble.
Every little thing
They sin.
I clean.

YOU have the power to rule your DESTINY

Being happy doesn't mean things are perfect. It just means you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.

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awesome: Everybody wants to be happy in life. We all want t...: Everybody wants to be happy in life. We all want to live a perfect life. But it ain't always that easy. you have your husband/finance/...

Everybody wants to be happy in life. We all want to live a perfect life.
But it ain't always that easy.
you have your husband/finance/boyfriend-wife/girlfriend to handle with all his/her issues and nagging at home. then at work your boss will not always be the nicest person in the world. Your job will have challenges that you did not foresee. Your workmates will sometimes be a pain. You won’t always get the salary and recognition that you want and deserve at work. Running a business is not as easy as you thought it would be'
Then comes heartbreak, rejection, depression and so on.
Things that make you just want to give up.
BUT the beauty of it is that we all have a CHOICE.
You have a CHOICE to fix your marriage/relationship by becoming a better YOU.
YOU have a CHOICE to put in your best at work and if its not good enough YOU have a CHOICE to wake away.
YOU have a CHOICE to go after your dream no matter how scary.
YOU have a CHOICE to remain heartbroken, depressed and rejection or to get up and move on.
 Fight every day to become the person you want to be. Become the change you want to see
You have total responsibility for what you do and how you respond to the fact that life is a shit.
Your life would be better the moment you start to make a positive change or the moment you take a risk and when you fail, then you'd know the direction to go.

This blog is just a medium to try to motivate you and put a smile on your face each day.